The statement, “Before you go into any relationship, tell her that you don’t give money oo,” reflects a simplistic and transactional view of relationships. While transparency about financial boundaries is important, reducing a relationship to monetary expectations undermines its emotional and mutual support aspects.
Such comments perpetuate stereotypes that women are only interested in money, ignoring the diversity of individual values and priorities. Healthy relationships thrive on trust, communication, and shared goals—not assumptions or financial disclaimers. Instead of focusing on what one won’t do, it’s more constructive to discuss mutual expectations and responsibilities openly.
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