The comment “That’s why I don’t take anything from men that are free” sparked conversation because it reflects a growing mistrust shaped by lived experiences. In the story, the lady clearly declined both the transport fare and the request for her number, yet the help was later withdrawn when romantic interest was not reciprocated. This reinforces the belief that some acts of “kindness” are transactional rather than genuine. While the comment may sound extreme, it highlights how repeated boundary violations force many women to become overly cautious, even in harmless situations. However, it also raises a broader concern: rejecting all goodwill out of fear can deepen suspicion between genders. The real issue is not generosity itself, but the expectation of entitlement attached to it. Respecting boundaries should not invalidate kindness already given.
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