A woman shared her frustration online, stating that she has had repeated bad experiences dating married men, with the last three relationships falling far short of what she expected. Rather than discouraging the pattern or addressing the ethical and emotional harm involved, one comment openly endorsed it: “Let me introduce you to someone that will be giving you millions.”
This response is troubling because it normalizes and incentivizes an already harmful situation. Instead of questioning why married men are the common denominator, or encouraging healthier relationship choices, the comment reframes infidelity as a financial opportunity. It reduces relationships to transactions and implies that emotional distress can be compensated with money. Such thinking not only perpetuates exploitation but also reinforces the idea that being involved with married partners is acceptable as long as material benefits are involved. This mindset erodes accountability, disrespects marriages, and encourages cycles of disappointment disguised as “luck.”
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