A TikTok video featuring a woman expressing a desire for a man who would “beat her when she is wrong” has sparked alarming reactions. One commenter wrote, “My ex did the same, slight hitting, and I felt it’s love. I never saw anything wrong in it,” echoing a deeply concerning mindset that equates abuse with affection.
Normalizing violence as a sign of love perpetuates toxic relationship patterns that harm both physical and mental well-being. True love thrives on respect, communication, and understanding, never on fear or aggression. Challenging these harmful beliefs is essential in fostering healthier perspectives, where love and safety coexist, and where abuse is never mistaken for devotion. Educating and encouraging self-worth and respect are key steps toward breaking this damaging cycle.
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