Allegations surfaced from Carter Efe’s baby mama and now ex, claiming he was abusive and violent during their relationship, describing the experiences she went through. The claims triggered wide debate online, with people either believing her, doubting her, or waiting for more clarity.
Amid the discussion, some responses were openly harmful. One comment suggested Carter Efe would beat her( the ex) if she ever danced online, and another added: “So make she dey shake butt for who na.” This reply implies that violence would be justified if a woman expresses herself publicly. That is dangerous because it normalizes abuse and places responsibility for violence on the victim’s behavior. No action, outfit, or online presence ever makes physical harm acceptable. Such thinking is what allows domestic violence to be excused instead of confronted.
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