I Will Not Spend Up To 100k On My Fiancée Until Marriage - Kontrolla19

A man recently asked if he should help his fiancée get a new phone, acknowledging that she needs it but also stating it’s not his responsibility. Many encouraged him to help if he’s capable, especially since they plan to marry. However, one comment read, “Any expenses wey pass 100k I no go spend on any babe until we are married, also that 100k seff na based on she dey spend for me too ooo.”

This comment reflects a perspective on setting financial boundaries before marriage. While it’s reasonable to be cautious with spending, it suggests an expectation of mutual contribution, which can work for some relationships. However, it may also seem overly transactional, rather than fostering a spirit of support and shared responsibility.