A woman’s post lamenting how some men show more romance to their side chicks than to their wives before sex sparked intense debate online. She argued that many husbands abandon emotional connection in marriage while reserving affection for outsiders.
One response that drew criticism read: “When you stopped looking romantic don’t expect romance.”
The comment implies that a wife deserves romance only if she constantly maintains a certain appearance, shifting responsibility entirely onto her. Critics argued that it promotes conditional love and ignores shared responsibility in marriage. Supporters of the woman’s post noted that long-term relationships require effort, communication, and mutual care, not withdrawal when one partner struggles.
For many, the exchange exposed how easily empathy is replaced with blame, and how romance is wrongly treated as a reward rather than a commitment in marriage.
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