Saida Boj’s advice urging women to check their partner’s phone at least twice a month has sparked diverse reactions online. While many debated whether phone privacy should be respected in relationships, one alarming comment stood out: “If I see you near my phone, I go kpai you straight up.” Such a violent response highlights the dangerous ways some individuals react to conflict or perceived intrusion.

Threatening violence, even in online conversations, normalizes toxic behavior and promotes fear rather than healthy communication. Disagreements in relationships should be handled with mutual respect and understanding. Instead of resorting to threats, couples need to foster trust, set boundaries, and have open conversations about privacy and expectations to avoid insecurity and conflict.

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