In response to a man’s honest confession about his wife cheating and financially supporting another man, one manipulative comment read: “Don’t give up on her. You sef check yourself, there’s something you’re not giving her that she had to find outside. Chai… just calm down.”
This response is gaslighting in disguise. Instead of holding the unfaithful partner accountable, it subtly shifts the blame to the victim—implying that his shortcomings justified her betrayal. This mindset not only excuses toxic behavior but also pressures the hurt party into self-doubt and silence.
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