Comments like “That is why they die early,” in response to posts about Igbo men prioritizing their families, are harmful and misleading. They trivialize the importance of family values, painting dedication as a burden instead of a virtue. Such remarks create fear, guilt, and unnecessary pressure on men, while also reinforcing outdated gender roles.
These comments spread misinformation, linking family responsibility with early death, when the real issues often involve stress and poor work-life balance. They can also erode trust in marriages, leading to conflicts or emotional distance. Ultimately, couples should reject these narratives and focus on supporting each other and maintaining a healthy balance in their relationship.
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