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A controversial statement on X claimed that “As a married woman with children, your husband cheating on you shouldn’t be a deal breaker.” While the post itself drew criticism for normalizing infidelity, a supportive comment took the argument to an extreme, stating, “You are right, he can even bring them home, I’ll prepare the bed for them.”

This response is deeply concerning. Rather than promoting peace or maturity, it trivializes emotional abuse and erases personal boundaries. Framing such extreme tolerance as virtue sends a dangerous message that self-respect and dignity should be sacrificed entirely for marriage.

Normalizing infidelity to this extent does not strengthen families; it reinforces imbalance, disrespect, and emotional harm. While forgiveness is a personal choice, publicly endorsing humiliation and total submission under the guise of loyalty is unhealthy.

Marriage should not require the abandonment of self-worth. Commitment does not mean accepting repeated disrespect, and tolerance should never be confused with strength.