It Is Easier To Build A House Than To Get Married - Odogwu Nwaharandu

A young man recently shared the achievement of building his new home, only to be met with a comment that read: “Do you know it is easier to plan to build a house than to plan for marriage?”

While the intention might have been to spark debate or offer perspective, the comment undermines the celebration of a personal milestone. It frames marriage as a stress-laden, nearly impossible task in comparison to tangible accomplishments like building a house. Comments like this subtly pressure individuals to overthink personal choices and perpetuate the notion that life achievements are only valuable when compared to societal expectations.

The Red Flag here is shifting focus from celebration to critique, judgment, or unsolicited advice. Achievements should inspire encouragement, not debate about unrelated life challenges. Celebrating milestones builds confidence; comparison breeds cynicism.