A woman opened up about her repeated disappointment with married men she has dated, noting that none of the relationships met her expectations. Instead of caution, reflection, or accountability, one comment advised her to continue: “Keep trying… your luck will soon shine.”
This response is deeply problematic. It treats emotional harm, broken homes, and unethical relationships as a game of chance, as though persistence will eventually lead to a reward. By framing involvement with married men as “luck” waiting to shine, the comment normalizes infidelity and ignores the emotional consequences for everyone involved—including spouses and children. It also misleads the woman into believing the problem is bad timing, not a flawed pattern. Encouraging someone to repeat a harmful behavior under the guise of hope is not empowerment; it is negligence. Growth requires honesty and better choices, not romanticizing cycles that consistently end in pain.
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