A man shared a touching post appreciating his strict but generous uncle who sponsored his education and guided him through life. Among the reactions, one user commented:
“This kind uncle no dey from father’s side.”
This comment continues a common but unfair stereotype that only maternal uncles can be caring or supportive. While it might stem from personal experience, such generalizations ignore the fact that many paternal uncles are also kind, dependable, and selfless. Goodness isn’t defined by which side of the family someone comes from—it’s defined by individual character and values.
Red flag 🚨: When appreciation turns into family-side comparison, it quietly fuels stereotypes and weakens family unity.
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