In response to a post where a man shared his girlfriend’s confession of infidelity and her plea for forgiveness, another toxic comment has emerged. The commenter remarked, “Some people self can’t keep quiet. You cheat and you dey talk, why can’t you wait till they catch you?” suggesting that the girlfriend should have waited to be caught rather than owning up to her mistake.
This mentality is deeply problematic. Encouraging dishonesty and deceit in relationships only fosters further damage. While cheating is a betrayal, taking responsibility and seeking forgiveness can be a step toward healing. Open communication, accountability, and honesty are the foundations of any healthy relationship, even in difficult moments. Promoting dishonesty harms everyone involved.
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