Let A Man Have His Way With All Your Friends And Yourself – skillo_z

A woman shared an unsettling experience online, alleging that a man who returned from abroad deceived her into visiting with her friends, slept with her, and is now attempting to sleep with all four women by offering to spend money on them. While she asked how to stop the situation, one response stood out: “Get what you want from him and move on, don’t gate keep.” This advice is deeply problematic. It dismisses deception, emotional harm, and consent, reframing exploitation as an opportunity for material gain. Encouraging someone to “get what they want” normalizes manipulation and transactional intimacy, while trivializing the woman’s distress. It also promotes the idea that harmful behavior should be tolerated or leveraged rather than confronted. Such comments silence accountability and reduce complex emotional violations to crude opportunism. Advice should prioritize boundaries, honesty, and self-respect—not exploitation dressed up as empowerment.