Mercy Eke recently shared a post about her current relationship, describing it as *“true love,”* while keeping her partner’s face blurred. Instead of celebrating her joy, a commenter wrote, *“Everyday she dey inside new relationship,”* implying that she frequently changes partners. This kind of negativity introduces cynicism into a post that should either be congratulated or left alone.

Judging someone’s relationship history based on social media appearances can be unfair and harmful. Everyone deserves the chance to find happiness, and criticizing someone for celebrating love does nothing but spread negativity. It’s important to support others in their pursuit of happiness rather than making assumptions that diminish their joy. If you can’t share in someone’s excitement, it’s better to stay silent than to spread unnecessary criticism.

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