In response to Shade Okoya’s interview where she shared how her husband proposed to her shortly after they met, an Instagram comment suggested she accepted because of his wealth, stating, “If na broke man now she won’t just accept, money is power!!!” This comment perpetuates the stereotype that women, especially in high-profile marriages, are primarily driven by financial gain rather than love or connection.
Such remarks diminish the depth and sincerity of relationships, reducing them to a transaction based on wealth. While financial stability can be a factor in any relationship, assuming that money is the sole motivator disrespects the emotional and personal elements of a marriage. Comments like this overlook the possibility of genuine love and mutual respect, reducing women to shallow gold diggers and men to their bank accounts. It’s important to acknowledge that relationships, especially those in the public eye, can be multifaceted and built on more than just material gain.
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