My Parents Only Love Me For What They Are Benefiting - Oluwafemi (Luckyflows)

In response to a post on X asking, “What’s the one thing you wish you knew earlier in life?” a user commented, “That people will never genuinely love you unless they’re benefiting from you.” While this statement may reflect personal experiences of betrayal or disappointment, it promotes a deeply cynical view of relationships. Assuming all love is transactional can lead to distrust, isolation, and missed opportunities for meaningful connections.

It’s true that some people may take advantage of others, but genuine love and friendships do exist. Believing that everyone has ulterior motives creates a barrier to forming healthy relationships. Learning to discern between genuine and toxic connections, rather than dismissing all relationships as self-serving, is essential for emotional well-being.