When a young lady celebrated her graduation and publicly appreciated her father for his sacrifices, most people joined in congratulating her. However, one insensitive comment read: “Nor be he born you?” This dismisses the daughter’s heartfelt gratitude, as if parenthood automatically cancels out appreciation. Being a parent does not mean sacrifices should be taken for granted. Many children grow up without supportive parents, so acknowledging one’s father or mother for their effort is an act of honor, not excess. Gratitude strengthens bonds, and reducing it to “he gave birth to you” belittles both the father’s role and the daughter’s heart.
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