A man recently shared his experience of being shamed by a woman he had only been talking to for five days because he didn’t buy her a birthday gift. According to him, she called him broke and uncaring, despite the fact that their interaction was still at a very early, casual stage. His story sparked debate about entitlement, dating expectations, and financial pressure in modern relationships.
One comment captured the frustration many men expressed: “Once you tell a Nigerian girl HI you automatically owe her money.”
While clearly hyperbolic, the remark reflects a growing sentiment that some women equate attention with financial obligation. Critics argue that this mindset distorts healthy dating dynamics, turning early-stage interactions into transactional exchanges. The situation highlights the need for clearer boundaries, mutual respect, and more realistic expectations when people are just getting to know each other.
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