After a man shared his painful discovery of his fiancée’s hidden sex tape with her ex, he expressed that being good or kind to women only gets you used. Among the comments, one urged him to overlook the betrayal, saying, “Proceed with your wedding and take water dey swallow your pill. Nothing dey for street.”
This advice encourages him to ignore clear red flags, reinforcing the notion that “there are no good women out there”—a harmful and false generalization. Assuming that all relationships are bound to disappoint only leads to cynicism, not healing.
Real love and commitment require a foundation of honesty and mutual respect, values that should never be compromised.
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