Take Your Affairs Out Of Social Media. It Is Toxic - Odogwu_ogidi

A man shared how his date wisely avoided overpriced ice-cream and chose a cheaper spot, making him consider something serious with her. While many praised her practicality, one user responded differently with a direct relationship-advice comment: “Take your affairs out of social media. It is toxic.”

The comment reflects a strong belief many hold about platforms like Facebook and X—that sharing personal relationship moments online can attract mixed opinions, pressure, entitlement prophecies and unnecessary noise. Logically, social media isn’t the cause of toxicity—people and reactions are—but constant outside commentary can make even healthy stories feel like public debate instead of personal reflection.

It’s not wrong to share lessons or gratitude; it only becomes a problem when the internet starts deciding the future for you. Healthy relationships thrive on communication and boundaries, not crowd-sourced verdicts. Use social media as inspiration, not a referee.