A man shared on X that after his girlfriend cheated on him during university when he was 20, he developed a pattern over the next five years of deliberately pursuing women who were already in relationships. He admitted this behavior was unhealthy, said he could not continue like this, and asked for advice on how to stop.
A disturbing comment responded: “Keep it on bro that’s absolutely the way to go for real.”
This response is highly toxic. Instead of encouraging reflection, healing, or accountability, it actively promotes infidelity and emotional harm. It reframes destructive behavior as success and validates using other people’s relationships as tools for personal gratification. Such encouragement dismisses the pain of betrayed partners, reinforces cycles of unresolved trauma, and normalizes unethical conduct. This is not growth or “winning”—it is avoidance of healing m
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