The Highest Bidder Is The Real Boyfriend Out Of Many - Dani Nedu

A man noted, “Women no longer beg in relationships. You cheat, she’s gone. You’re inconsistent, she blocks you.” One response argued, “Relationships today—na highest bidder be the real boyfriend.” This view reflects a common stereotype that commitment now depends on financial gain, with affection going to those who provide most materially.

While financial stability can influence relationships, reducing modern partnerships to mere transactions oversimplifies them and dismisses women’s desire for respect and emotional security. Many people now prioritize self-worth and emotional well-being, leaving relationships that don’t honor these values.