A Nigerian woman who gave birth to twins in her 50s after many years of childlessness received congratulations and admiration from many. However, one insensitive comment stated: “Mama just buy two babies, the time where you dey young u dey dance everyone.” This remark dismisses her joy and achievement by suggesting the children were bought, while also shaming her for her past lifestyle. Such a comment is not only disrespectful but also deeply hurtful, as it trivializes the struggles and emotions of someone who waited decades to experience motherhood. Mocking her happiness adds unnecessary cruelty instead of empathy.
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