The main story centers on a woman seeking advice after discovering, close to her wedding, that her fiancé is a heavy smoker—an issue with clear health, lifestyle, and compatibility implications for their marriage. Against this backdrop, the comment advising her to “smoke it with him… then tell him to stop” is highly irresponsible. It trivializes the seriousness of substance use and encourages her to adopt a harmful habit rather than communicate boundaries. Instead of promoting honest discussion, counseling, or informed decision-making, it normalizes risky behavior as a relationship tool. This advice reflects poor judgment and shifts the burden of change onto her, rather than addressing the fiancé’s responsibility or the couple’s long-term wellbeing.
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