A recent post advised men to prioritise taking care of their parents rather than trying to impress women. This sparked a lively discussion, with many supporting the idea that familial responsibilities should come first. However, one comment stood out: “People you treat good must return pain in exchange,” critiquing a man who sponsors a girl’s education.
This perspective reflects a troubling ideology that suggests kindness can lead to betrayal. It implies that altruism is a transaction, where good deeds must yield positive returns. Such beliefs foster cynicism and discourage acts of compassion, creating an environment where people hesitate to support one another out of fear of being hurt.
Promoting the notion that helping others is inherently risky undermines the value of selflessness, which is essential for fostering a compassionate community.
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