We End Up With Those Who Are Ready Not Those Who Love Us - Andrei Akomaye

In response to a Facebook post asking what scares people the most about marriage, one user shared a concern: “Marrying someone who just settled for me because they couldn’t get who they truly wanted.” This comment reflects fears of being in a relationship where one partner feels like a second choice.

In reply, another user commented, “We don’t end up with those we love, we end up with those who are available when we are ready.” This remark suggests a more cynical view of love and marriage, implying that timing and availability often play a larger role than true emotional connection. While this might be the reality for some, it also raises questions about the importance of genuine love, mutual desire, and the willingness to build a life together. It reflects a broader societal concern about settling versus finding a true, fulfilling connection.