In response to a pastor’s advice telling women, “You’re the one empowering useless boys,” one supporting comment added, “As a lady, when you buy things for a man, the man would not take you seriously any longer.”

This statement reinforces harmful stereotypes about relationships, suggesting that a woman showing generosity makes her less respected by her partner. Such comments discourage mutual support and fuel the toxic idea that men should only be providers, while women should avoid offering help to maintain respect. Healthy relationships thrive on balance and reciprocity, not rigid gender roles. Promoting this narrative undermines partnerships where both individuals support each other emotionally, financially, and otherwise.

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