A woman’s account of being deceived by a man who then attempted to sleep with her friends sparked intense reactions online. While she sought advice on how to stop the situation, one comment responded crudely: “Who dey don knack make them shift one side make them knack the next person.” This response is deeply insensitive and harmful. It reduces women to disposable objects, normalizes sexual exploitation, and dismisses consent, boundaries, and emotional harm. Framing sexual access as something to be “rotated” trivializes deception and encourages predatory behavior. Such comments reinforce rape culture and silence victims by mocking their distress instead of offering support. Advice should center on agency, consent, and protection—not crude encouragement of exploitation masked as humor.

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