The controversy began after a lady advised that, as a first daughter, a woman has no business marrying for love. According to her, first daughters should prioritize responsibility, stability, and family obligations over romantic feelings when choosing a partner.
Her statement sparked heavy backlash, with many women rejecting the idea that their birth order should strip them of the right to love. Others reacted with sarcasm and frustration, arguing that if love is discouraged, then marriage naturally becomes transactional.
It was in response to this debate that a man commented: “When we say men are in love and women are in business Una go think say na ogogoro talk.”
Critics noted that his remark unfairly generalized women as financially driven, ignoring that the original post itself reduced women’s choices and framed marriage as duty rather than partnership.
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