A man shared a post about an entitled lady at a restaurant who complained he should have paid for her meal after he only paid for his own. The story sparked heated discussions on X about dating expectations.
One controversial comment supported the entitled mentality, claiming: “This is a Nigerian culture, so women will always have expectations.”
This remark is problematic because it normalizes entitlement as a cultural trait, rather than addressing individual behavior. By framing unreasonable expectations as cultural, it excuses rudeness and reduces accountability, while also reinforcing gender stereotypes. Comments like this shift the focus from mutual respect in relationships to broad generalizations, making it harder to have constructive conversations about etiquette, fairness, and healthy dating dynamics.
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