An online discussion emerged after a man claimed that women would rather remain lonely and unmarried than return home, get a husband, and take him abroad. In reaction to this debate, a woman asked, “If she carry you go now, will you be submissive?” followed by laughing emojis. While framed as humor, the comment is mocking and toxic. It reduces marriage to a power struggle where financial leverage determines dominance and submission. Such remarks reinforce unhealthy gender stereotypes, shame men for non-traditional roles, and trivialize partnership. Relationships should be built on mutual respect and cooperation, not ridicule or financial control disguised as jokes.
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