A controversial question asked men how they would react if they were out with their partner and another man complimented her and asked for her number. Many men gave balanced responses. Some said they would watch their partner’s reaction first, believing it reflects mutual respect and defines their position in the relationship. Others said they would only step in if the man became pushy after she had clearly declined.
However, one comment shifted the narrative entirely. It claimed that “if you’re a good partner, you’ve no fears even if she gives the number out,” dismissing any discomfort as insecurity. This framing is problematic. Setting boundaries is not insecurity; it is a normal expectation in committed relationships. Giving out a number in that context is not harmless politeness—it blurs lines and disrespects the partner present. Labeling legitimate boundaries as insecurity pressures people to tolerate behavior that undermines trust, while redefining disrespect as emotional maturity
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